hopeless romantic

it has been sometimes since i went on a first date. well come to think of it, i NEVER really have a first date actually. probably because i am a hopeless romantic like that. but i figured that i would love to go on MY ideal first date sometimes soon perhaps?

i am not all romantic queen whatnot, but i can be one if i want to. i always have this idea of my ideal first date. its just that i never really have a chance to do so. it might not be your cuppa tea, but its mine.

1. Hiking

unfortunately they dont have "hollywood hill" in London, but i would love to go hiking on my first date. its interesting and healthy for gym haters like myself. so go on, bring me hiking on my first date will you?

2. Wall or rock climbing

i love the idea of either walk or rock climbing. at least its something to remember somewhere down the line. its fun don't you think so?

3. Night stroll

London is pretty during the day, but its prettier at night. a nice stroll along the Embankment. London Eye and Big Ben within your sight, isn't it beautiful?

4. Take a walk with me

That's all I'm asking really. I don't mean along Oxford Street or anywhere in London for that matter. Surprise me!

5. Paint balling

A game of paint balling is interesting. Always wanted to go for a paint ball, but never really got a chance to do so. Shame! But the idea of paint balling for a first date..hmm, i like that.

6. Teach me how to play any musical instrument

I've always wanted to play musical instrument especially drums, bass and guitar. When I was younger, I asked my dad to send me to a drum learning class, but what i got was "you're a girl, you're not supposed to play any drums or guitars". meh! So come on, teach me how to play a guitar or drums on our first date. I'd love that!

7. Take me to a concert

I love all things rock and roll. So a pair of tickets to watch the strokes or foo fighters or jake bugg or arctic monkey on a first date would be super awesome!

Also, as I'm getting older (young at heart, mind you!), i know what i DONT WANT on a first date.

1. Clubbing

That will be the last time i will ever speak to you

2. Dinner date

Spare that for later will you? I don't want any expensive dinner date on a first date, neither would i want my first date to be at Nandos or McDonald's or Burger King..or worst, the kebab shop!

3. Shopping

I can do that myself. I don't you to come with me on a shopping spree UNLESS if you say "let's go shopping, take anything you want!" LOL

4. Cuddle-ing

If that's your idea on a first date, seriously..KILL YOURSELF!

5. Movie date

First, i HATE movie, second, what am i gonna do in a cinema? well fine, it helps that you will be able to have something to talk about later, but as i ALREADY hate movies, I'm afraid it wont work for me!

Just an idea. Whatever it is, i hope your first date will be the most memorable ones. 

Love itself, is not based on where or what you do on a first date, its how you accept your other half in the best way possible. Sometimes, what you want is not always what you need, or perhaps, not what you will get. 

So love honestly, and embrace it. Let go when you have to. If it meant to be, it will be. If its won't, its not the end of the world, instead, its the beginning of something new, perhaps, something even better maybe. 

Remember, God have plans for every single one of us. His plans will work eventually. Just be patient, and live your life like there's no tomorrow.  

GO!

-lady-

ECO-fucking-NOMY

I'm seeing spider webs on my blog. its THAT long since I last blogged something. 

 

I literally choose the right timing to blog now. Yes kids, its fucking economy! yippie.

 

I've said this once, twice and I'll said it again, that every time when there is a proposed budget from the government, people will start complaining and whining and getting all emotional (sometimes the report hasn't even been presented just yet. shocking!) for no reason. I understand that perhaps some of us need a proper understanding of how economy works in simple terms, but what I found interesting and quite dumbfounded really, were those who complaint and whine are the educated ones, the smart ones, the high achievers, the successful ones, the ONES who quite rightly must've read some books or at least a newspaper to really understand what's going on..no? 

 

please, do call me ignorance or stupid or asshole or full of bulls or whatever that suits your interests, but those who complaint MUST'VE BEEN FUCKING KIDDING ME! Also, I saw one post on twitter about a Malaysian who lives in German and praise the country for being cheap bla bla bla. Those who don't already know, living in German is like living outside of KL in the suburban area. The city is dead over the weekends. And if you're as thick as the fella is, or more like shameless in this case, go on and live with social benefits in FOREIGN COUNTRIES, when you don't even deserve a PENNY FOR THAT! 

 

why are you complaining? you can't afford to pay rm1500 for a house but you do because everyone else have big houses and so you should too!! boohoo. you can't afford to drive a Honda but you want to because national car is "not cool"!! fucking screw you. you can't afford those handbags you bought with your credit cards, and your debts are piling up and you can's afford the petrol because all your money has been wasted on those stupid bags! smart moves bimbo. everyone wants to live like a king, but you're not even a fucking prince! so stop spending like your mom's Queen Elizabeth.

 

if you maybe have time to read newspapers, you'll know that EVERY COUNTRY in the world will experience high living cost due to the countries' spending expenditure for the sake of their people. have you ever heard of saving? have you heard of balance life style? have you ever heard of smart spending? why..clearly not, because if you know you cant afford a mortgage of rm1500, why do you say yes? blaming the bank for what? they're making money out of you!!! they're not stupid. they're called BANK for a reason. savings of rm1500 out of rm2500 salary per month, u must've been kidding me??! pretty sure u went to the university for something right??

 

politicians games. the best excuse ever! don't you ever forget who let you in when everyone else wants you out! don't you forget who gives you educations when everyone else don't care! don't play stupid with me. you don't even know half of the games, and suddenly everyone's an honest and transparent politicians.

 

rather than whine and complaint, don't you think its best that you channel your seemingly overloaded ideas into your daily scope of productivity? what did you get by whining? take a good look at yourself before you simply slam the door shut to those "dirty people" who provides you a good life in Malaysia. it may not be perfect, but it could've been worst.

 

Do you think they'll pity us Malays if not the Malays ourselves?

"First help yourselves, before you help one another" the best life mantra, don't you think so?

 

how does it feel on your arse aye?

 

-lady-