morning musics

nothing beat good musics in the morning to kick start your day with! i used to not listen to any music in the morning, it used to only watch news on the telly (got distracted and then late for work), or getting ready with those chirping birds, but recently, its like a MUST to put on some really good musics (good for me) while getting ready.

like y'all, i too have different mood every single day. some day i like it mellow, some day i like it hard (sheesh, not THAT hard), while the rest are just mix and mash of different genre of musics i listen to.

MONDAY

On a Monday morning, i usually like it hard, cause its the only way to wake me up. well, sometimes i might accidentally wake up them neighbors too (sorry). On Monday, its usually, rock n roll. I love rock n roll. I'll sing along with it, head banging in front of the mirror whenever i feel like it. So for me, hard rock n roll will most definitely gets me going. I usually put on some killswitch engage, funeral for a friend, mars volta, foo fighters etc (imma bit of an olskool)

TUESDAY

Usually on Tuesday, i am still in a mood of rock n roll, but maybe not so much of a hard rock, something a little bit more alternative i would say. the sounds of arctic monkey, band of horses, pulp, sigur ros, mew etc

WEDNESDAY

Its mix and mash musics on Wednesday. Today i just put on what i feel like listening, ANYTHING! I listen to mumford and sons, lady antebellum, keaton henson, etc, basically anything random.

THURSDAY

It means, we're one day away to the weekends, so the music im listening to by now is more upbeat. in my defense, upbeat means those songs that i can dance too, any music that can make me get up and dance. the like of come on eileen, locked out of heaven, atomic etc, these tunes just make me wanna dance every single time!

FRIDAY

We've made it, so lets celebrate! Its finally here, regardless whether im gonna have a good weekend ahead or not, but every Friday, i always put on some sick tunes (for me at least it is, haha) that makes me go cray cray. i put on Gasolina if i want to, rudimental sometimes, in short, any dance tunes.

However, its not necessarily in sequence. At times, it depends on my mood. If im feeling mellow on a Monday, i'll put on some slow tunes, or if im feeling British wannabes on Friday, i'll put on some Tom Odell, Biffy Clyro, The National etc

Music is in everybody's life, i know it sounds cliche, but it is. Ur mom and dad, even ur nan listen to musics, its just how musics play a part in their life. i love my music and i especially love rock n roll.

 

one of my all time favs

Wakey wakey! Rise and shine people.

Life is a privilege. So honor it.

-lady-

 

i dont like lots of things

initially, i wanna say HATE, but then i thought "wow, that's such a strong word". so if i say "i hate you", then u betta run, as fast as u can! LOL. kidding.

although i blogged "i dont" before, but this one is probably a little bit different..so u might wanna read this with that loath and disgusting emotion if u could. LOL.

1. I dont like patriotic stuff

- i am a proud Malaysian, but i just dont like getting involve in patriotic events.

2. I dont like ass-kisser

- i am my own person, i dont do things to impress people, they either hate my guts or they just have to deal with it

3. I dont like high heels

- i HATE them. i salute those girls walking around with heels literally everywhere, but i personally just hate it. i wore it once or twice THE MOST, and i regret wearing it after that.

4. I dont like pushovers

- dude, dont push it! asked me once, twice, third strike..ure OUT!

5. I dont like pretenders

- any type of pretenders, especially when u pretend to like me..DONT!

6. I dont like melting snow

- snow is pretty, but going out when its frozen and starting to melt down..im dreading it man, especially when i MUST go out, like going to work. urghh

7. I dont like queue-jumpers

- i HATE queue-jumpers especially those stupid ones who jumped in and then pretend like theyre not aware of the long queue. seriously, are u BLIND or that u just got out of the jungle after befriending with those animals that obviously cannot think? to think that ure tarzan or jane, but u dress like everybody else in the queue?! 

8. I dont like big-talk

- I dont do big talk. I never tell people the plan before i make it happen. these people just talk the talk and talk and talk, but NEVER walk the talk. we all have big dreams, but some are more modest about it, while others..SHUT IT!

9. I dont like movies

- not so much i must say, if i have a choice, movies will be the last one in the list. i havent went to the cinema for almost one year now.

10. I dont like British Gas

- OMG, stop calling me every FUCKING DAY! not my fault the bill come in a month later and asked me to pay ASAP. i got other things to do than writing a cheque every bloody single day. just thinking bout it right now makes me angry. people dont like it when im angry! hihi

i am not weird, i am just not scared of telling people how i feel. if i am wrong, i'll say im wrong. if i am right, i'll say it out loud.

=)

-lady-

people that i will avoid (not sure about u)

as u get older (young at heart of course! chey), u kinda see the world in a different perspective. that being said, that's if u really go out and hang around with every single people from every single walk of life. i've seen people who hang out ONLY with those of their own "class", or so they thought. and then claim that their friends are the best of them all, and because they meet that certain criterias that they thought make them their good bunch friends. WRONG! i also meet people, when i am socializing. NO, i am not talking about socialite, excuse me! 

but along the way, there are certain people that i wouldn't want to cross path like ever again! well i maybe wrong, u maybe have a different thought, but thats the whole idea. if everyone likes the same thing, the world will be oh so boring. 

so these are types of people that i hope i will never have to cross path with ever again.

1. Those who only talk about themselves.

First they'll be nice and asked for ur name. Then the minute you asked about them, you can forget telling them about yourself ever again. They'll go on and on and on about about themselves..and ONLY about themselves.

2. Those who are self-proclaim

God save me from these people. I hate the fact that they're all that. I hate the fact that they tell the world that people tell them they're cool, they're fun, they're this, they're that..yada yada yada..shove it in ur face honey!

3.Those who bring you down

These are the worst of them all. How can people still hold on to this type of friendship, i'll never know. They bring u down. They kick u out. But u still stick around despite all that. Honey, i dont care, but dont blame me if people are laughing at ur stupidity. u asked for it.

4. Those who choose their friend for a "reason"

I am sure we all notice how some rich people aka socialite only hang out with another socialite. Or those smart people only hang out with their same class of brain, well guess what? U can have all that, i dont want it, not even a small piece of it. Not everyone is like that, but its fair to say that majority of them are.

5. Those who choose their man over u

Dont get me wrong. What i meant by this is how they'll stand by their man, and let it out on u, her friend. Unless ur friend is a bitch, then go back to # 3. U dont fall out with ur gfs because of a MAN. This is wrong in so many ways. First, hes NOT YOUR HUSBAND. Second, u just dont let a man gets in between u and ur friends. Third, a good man will want his lady to be happy, unless ur "gfs" are not ur friends, then hes a proper dickhead!

6. Those who love attentions

Girl, have some class will ya? stop telling the whole world about urself. its NOT NECESSARY. if ure interesting enough, they'll asked! be more mysterious. thats sexier than being "loud" for no reason..well in ur case, to get more attention! get over urself.

7. Those who think theyre better than the rest

Ure nothing without ur family and friends! so come back down to planet earth, for Mars are million years away. no one's better than Him. remember, if u think ure cool, enough, someone's cooler than u, or if u think ure pretty enough, theres someone prettier than u etc. 

8. Those who are FAKE

Well forget # 3, these  people are defo the worst!! if i give u the disgusting face, then walked away. cz i dont wanna be fake...like U! i hate people who pretend to be someone else that theyre not. well if u hate me, then walk away. i dont want u to be my friend either. i dont want u to "fake" ur "happy gestures" just because everyone in the room seems happy, and u then have to play pretend. the door is always open for u to leave =)

i think 8 types are more than enough, or else ull say im a fucking ugly delusional monster, yet i dont mind. cause if i do, then this blog will be shit! because thats me. u take me for who i am, and not for who i am not. i want to like people because of their personality, how they bring themselves around people, how they handle different people, and i want people to like me for exactly the same reasons. 

well i am not THAT old, but its safe to say that i've met all those type of people as it goes. yes, there were time that i made such obvious disgusting faces, and excuse myself before i become a monster. i am not perfect either, but at least i am not trying hard to impress everyone with such stupid antiques that push people away from me.

i can be aggressive at times, insensitive about other people's feeling (sorry to those who take it to heart), loud and outspoken, but at least thats me.

u can hate me or judge me or whatever, for as long as u fall in one of those category, i am more than happy to "end" this acquaintances that we have. i have friends who love and take me the way i am, and i have friends who are not perfect like me, but theyre good for me as much as i am for them (i hope i am) and definitely not in one of those category.

so look at the mirror, and tell me who do you see?

 

Henrietta??

-lady-   

 

post - GE13

its done and dusted now. we are still under the same government after all. after such dramatic dirty little games that EVERYONE has been playing, lets hope we are in good hands. but still, there are MAJORITY of Malaysians who are still not satisfied with the outcome.

please bare with me, as i am not a good writer, let alone to write something that is politic-related, and the fact that i dont like politic, doesnt help either. so just bare with me while i am making my point. there should not be any right or wrong, because this is purely based on non-bias observations.

i am neither happy nor sad that BN won and still govern our beloved Malaysia. having said that, somehow its a relieved knowing that at least we're in safe hands. after all, this is the government that has been there for us for more than half a century. yes, they have a looooooooooooooong way to go, but i am sure, with helps from all of us, they WE WILL get there someday. i never thought i would say this, but it is sad knowing that some Malaysians i.e. Chinese, Malays, Indians, Bumi's, are still not grateful with what we have since our independence day. 

we have been through a lot of pains, ups and downs, happiness and sorrows, which i still failed to understand, why at the end of the day, we all still CHOOSE to be in this route..FALLING APART as a nation. do not lie to yourself, Malays, Chinese, Indians, Bumi's..because WE NEED EACH OTHER, now more than ever. Malaysia will not be Malaysia if its not because of all of us regardless of what colours, religions, and beliefs that we have.

i will NOT repeat whatever that has been said on the other social networks. Malays bad-mouthing one another...disgusting! Malays bad-mouthing Chinese, VICE VERSA...disgraceful! Indians beating around the bush...unacceptable! why do we have to go down this route? i don't understand! Malays need Chinese, Indians need Malays, Chinese need Indians, Malays need Indians, Chinese need Malays, Indians need Chinese, lets face the fact, that THIS IS THE TRUTH! It has been done before, so it is POSSIBLE. Open your eyes, your mind, we all want the same thing here, that is to be a BETTER NATION. In case you're unaware of the definition for nation, here it goes

"a large body of people united by common descent, history, culture, or language, inhabiting a particular state or territory - Oxford"

we have to stop trying to bring each other down, but start trying to figure out ways to get out of this mess. we have to unite. we have to stand up together. we have to protect our beloved countries for the sake of our great great great grandchildren. there MUST be a way to sort this out, because the world is ruled by God, not you, not me, not them. He gets us in this mess, because He knows theres a way out of this, and that's His job, or else we will only live happily every after, with nothing to worry about, with no challenges in life, with nothing to complaint, and thats not the purpose of LIVING.

i wrote this blog with the sense of sensitivity because this is what human being is all about. to be aware of other people's feeling, be considerate, be understanding and that make us a normal human being. but right now, all i see is crazy abnormal people who don't think rational, who are full of hatred and revenge, who are possessed by power, money and title. and with such scary traits, i can only see one way, that is the way to FAILURE, as a nation, as a country and as a human being.

but then again, I am just another Malaysian, whose voice might not be heard, whose idea might not be considered, whose thoughts might not be counted. it is sad. after more than 50 years of ups and downs, we can almost see the possibility of going back to square one...fighting for independence, AGAIN! it is not too late. it is never too late. if you love Malaysia, you know we have to stop hating each other, we have to stop trying to bring each other down, we have to stop trying to destroy the one thing that is so precious, more powerful than the power itself, our beloved MALAYSIA. Have some faith in the government, because they too want what good for themselves, like you want what good for yourselves.

listen to yourself. look around you. open your mind. it is there all along, for you, for me and for all of you fellow Malaysians. all those could be destroy in the blink of an eye, if you don't treasure it. 

"You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty" - Mahatma Ghandi

-lady-

piece of my mind - GE13

while EVERYONE's at it, i thought, WTF, might as well i jump in and say a thing or two or three..oh well, we'll see! so i am neither pro nor anti, BN or PKR or PAS etc. in short, i dont like politics, and i never will. i dont understand politics, and i dont want to. but what i do understand is that i have a functioning brain, and i'll use it to educate myself, and not by promoting / following / trusting / humiliating another human being. 

Malay, Chinese, India, Bumi's, we ARE ALL Malaysians! ALL OF US. You go out there, and tell them you're a Malaysian. Be proud of who you are, be proud of where you come from. If you think by voting for other party brings you more opportunities, then by all means, do it! But i only have ONE question, WHAT OPPORTUNITIES are you looking for exactly? Lets see..

1. Free education - We cant afford free educations in Malaysia, lets be rational. Take for example the UK, they have free school educations here, but later ARE force into paying WAY TOO much for the university, and they cant afford it! "NOTHING'S FREE" really..

2. Free medical service - Come on now, Malaysians too receive free medical service if we go to our government hospitals, and must pay if we choose to go to private's. Its the same here in the UK, and please stop complaining about the waiting time. I've waited hours for the GP to actually tell me something that i already know "you got flu, temperature is high, we'll give u paracetamol".

3. No tolls - Where's the government gonna get the money for improvement, for YOUR safety, if they actually abolish this? YES, from you and for you! You choose! Pay higher taxes or pay toll charges?

4. Racism - it’s EVERYWHERE..in every corner of the world! Any government in the world, cannot change this, only you, yourself can change this mentality.

5. Corruption - name me ONE country without corruptions..only ONE! This is "the game". There is NO one "clean" government in the world..NONE! Its sad, but thats the truth. So just deal with it.

6. Crime rates - This starts at home! So dont blame the government if someone got shot during a gang fight, dont blame the government if your car was stolen in a parking lot. I mean, other government will be able to stop this how you think? Create another big authority, bigger than the police? Behavioral pattern of a human being starts at home. It "nurtures" as you grow up. If PAS or PKR rules the country, people will stop fighting or stealing how? Well i'm all ears..go on! Give me your best shots.

7. Improvements - Yes to help people in the rural area!  Yes to improve other infrastructure in Malaysia, i.e. transportation, BIG TIME! But if big, experienced and resources capability of such a party failed to do so, how exactly will a small one cope? Talking is easy. A STABLE and yet risky businessman wouldnt hire an inexperience employee. He wouldnt risk his company on it. I believe you'll do the same if you're that businessman. 

8. Please be rational! Nothing's for free. You have to sacrifice something, so that you'll get something else. If the government start shifting its focus on other issues i.e. helping people from the rural area, improving our transportation system, means no bonus, you'll complaint that you pay taxes for nothing. if the government focuses on you i.e. bonuses etc, you'll still complaint that the government didn't pay enough attention to the needy ones. Sort yourself out will you?

What we need is SOMEONEs who are capable of providing improvements to the country, and that someones, can be from any party, as long as hes good and have such capabilities to do so. But if everyone tries to bring everyone down, who do we trust? who CAN we trust?

....and then, we'll back to square one! 

So what exactly do you want? All i want, is for us Malaysians to stand tall together. All these disgusting tactics, campaigns, lobbying is getting out of control, and gets a little bit out of hands really. 

i am just giving you a piece of my mind, based on common sense. so vote sensibly and be smart about it.

Remember, every action has its own consequences.

Happy voting!

-lady-