if its meant to be

ive witnessed couples who have been thru lots in their relationship, heartbreaks, long sleepless night, nasty arguments, misunderstanding, u named it! but almost all these troubled relationships that i came across have a jolly happy ending. some of these couples that i know are either married or engaged.

L.O.V.E

no, i am not here to point out what were their mistakes or where have they gone wrong, but what im trying to prove is that, the saying is indeed true "if its meant to be, its meant to be", even the saying "if u love someone, let them go, and if they really love u, they'll come back". all them cases have different issues but the same happy ending. they break up, they make up, they hate each other, they love each other. when they're down, they'll asked u for advice and no matter how good u are at advicing like "u deserved better", "forget him", "ull be fine", they will eventually get back together over and over again.

and when they do, u start thinking, is it due to the immunity that they'll survive another day, or really, they just make it happen, or what? these men or women, they sure are stronger than any of us, having to forget and forgive, move on and move in, but among all that, its because the love that they have for each other are just strong enough to get them together.

and that is why, being in a stable relationship doesnt ensure u a walk down the aisle, being in a long period relationship doesnt mean a long-lasting marriage awaits u. God do works in a mysterious way. ive seen it before, and i dont write about something that is superficial. i only write things that are factual, based on my observation. and based on that, these people really do sound happy and ever-so-in-love with each other. i wish them the best, dont mind hours ive spent trying to find ways to makes u feel better (kidding! ;p). everybody deserves to be happy, and that happiness differ from one person to another. thats why sometimes u thought "she still wants to marry that dickhead!" or "i dont know what she sees in him", because unlike God, love works in a crazy way. maybe only that dickhead makes her happy, perhaps she sees every good thing in him, unlike everyone else around her.

hence, i would like to make a toast, have a very happy good life people, u deserved it and dont let anyone says u dont, love endlessly, may God bless us all. cheers!

til death do us apart

-lady-