Wednesday 29 February 2012

success v love

questions has been raised, would u let go of love in order to go for the success that u have been longing for? being an average jane, i say be both. be successful and be in love. well, if u come to think about it, when u love ur work too much, it will defeinitely gets u somewhere, which in this case, that somewhere is the journey to success. so yeah, basically u get hold of both, in love and being successful..but with your career obviously!

sometimes people tend to forget that although being successful will definitely bring u somewhere, but do u really want to go 'somewhere' alone? well if u prepare to do so, i say good on u! but stop saying u still have ur family to celebrate ur success with, because just how long will your siblings or parents even stay there with you at the top. they have their own life. they have their husband to take care of (ur old man in case u forget) and they have their children to feed (ur nieces and nephews that is).

how pathetic can u be, thinking that everyone else will push their family aside to celebrate the success with u, while u selfishly push away people who loves u just to get there where u are, or in fact where u will be. love is there for a reason. love is there to push u harder, to push u to the distance, to help u get what u want. without love, u just lost. the theory is simple, if u dont love ur job, u wont be successful. human being needs love. we all need to be in love and be loved.

money in the world, cant buy u no love. money in the world, cant buy u good life. money in the world, cant buy u loyalty. money in the world is just too much that it apparently mean nothing to u. here i am sitting in the office thinking, how is my family doing back at home? is umpy ok? my friends, do they still remember me? do they even miss me? but on another hand, theres which company do i wanna work for next? do they even want me? how much do i wanna get paid? when will i be able to buy my own property?

that is life. the life that makes u a normal human being. feeling content is not a crime. feeling over the moon is not a crime either, let alone being successful. its not a crime! its just sad, when everything that u need is in front of ur eyes, and u still look for it elsewhere. we dont live forever to have such thought of letting go of those who love us, just to get to the top. who will be waiting for u? remember who u push down on the way up, they wont be there to catch u if u fall. because the world is round. scientifically (eh?), the gravity will still push u down one day. i feel sorry for u really. going up alone, oh well, if that makes u happy, but coming down alone? who am i to judge who wants what? but i always remember one thing, if i were to get there to the top one day, i dont wanna get there alone. i want to be able to hold umpy's hand and say "WE DID IT", rather than "I DID IT". u know what they say, the more the merrier!



-lady-

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