Valentine's fuss

it was Valentine's Day last Tuesday. Happy belated Valentine's Day to those who celebrate, and to those who dont, you dont need that one special day to celebrate love with your other half, in fact celebrate it every day. i dont celebrate Valentine's Day, well actually not anymore. i used to celebrate Valentine's day when i was younger, but as i grow older, things change, and the belief has changed too.

year by year, every time when it comes to Valentine's Day, there will always be different perceptions and different thought among different people. i am fine with opinions and such, but when u keep talking about the same thing over and over again, especially as silly as this one, it starting to get really annoying. people forget that not only drug and alcohol can be abuse, social networking like facebook and twitter are easily abuse as well. walls and timelines are all full of arguments and opinions that it gets out of order really.

some are playing angel, reminding other people in a very cynical way that i believe no where in the Quran says that if u wanna help spread good words, do it in a way that will hurt other people's feeling. another are playing innocent samaritan, telling other people to just get over themself and nothing wrong with celebrating Valentine's, while others, openly wish their other half Happy Valentine's Day.

quite honestly, if u wanna help enlighten other people about how we Muslims cannot celebrate Valentine's Day, do it in the most decent and intellectual way. i am pretty sure (POSITIVE), that people will listen and take it to heart. as for those who celebrate Valentine's Day, knowing you're not supposed to, keep all presents, cards and your stories to yourself, so that people dont have reason to talk. also for those who's trying to play nice and acted so-called cool, then i suggest keep all disgusting thoughts to yourself.

i have nothing against people who promote religious things or good deeds or good thoughts or anything good, but may i suggest to keep it in the most low profile and humble actions, avoiding bad mouthing and negative vibe around you. for those who always have that evil thought in them, well honey, u might wanna shut it and stop poking your nose at other people's problems.

so as long as u have a strong belief and strong faith in Islam, u will not get carried away, or at least u should not get carried away at all. so for God sake, stop debating about the silly Valentine's Day celebration. the celebration of love should be celebrated every single day. so why bother sticking on the 14th February to do it, and not 5th June or even 1st December (its my birthday, so i deserved to be pampered with love if i want to!)?

LOVE

well if u have a brain, a functioning one i supposed, u should be able to see how irrelevant the debates about Valentine's Day is, year by year, when what u should be debating about could be of something more useful like, the economy or the world news. but then again, if u r useless on debating about Valentine's Day, how can u possibly be better to talk about something more intellectual.

so people, celebrate love everyday. it doesnt have to be a bouquet of flowers, tell ur other half how much u love him/her, it does makes both of u happy. theres no need to tell the whole world how lovey dovey u r everyday, cause that sweetheart, just doesnt work either! its more special if its kept between u, cause IF u decided to go ur own way, at least u dont look like an idiot who makes a fool out of herself by telling the whole world that she loves him, he loves u, we're match made in heaven bla bla bla. in case u did, save urself from humiliation, especially if things really doesnt go ur way. well, at least ur heart broken, and ur pride is not!

-lady-